Sent him a Carcass CD 2 months ago in exchange for a Pandemonium (Can) CD which I have not received at all. I've contacted him 1 month ago and he simply argued he had some health issues and that he had just shipped the cd. As of today I have not seen any cd and he is not replying to the message I've sent him.

update Dec 02 2014: took almost 3 months,but eventually the cd is here

The guy sent me a photograph of a letter with my address written on it...can't say if he has already shipped or not. Anyways if the package ever reaches me, I will be glad to eat my words back.

This is why I take a photo in the post office after all the stamps/customs forms etc have been affixed and paid for, obviously I keep my receipt and any carbon copies of customs declarations too.
I'd be asking to see the receipt for the parcel he sent not just a photo of the parcel, what was in the letter? nobody knows.
Italian post isn't the most reliable either remember... Singapore may be just as bad

I've invited him in here.

nonpointer, you are lucky to have any reply, cause maybe you have post a thread like this. Maybe 3 or 4 months ago, i have a trade deal with this lordrul, i have hold for maybe 30 items for him, Indonesian metal cds and t shirt !!! And what i want to get from him are Malaysian metal cds ! Months ago he said he will give me any answer about what he got for me....but none, cause he said he is out of country.....i said okay ! I wait. A month after that i ask him again, and the answer is still the same, and the last times he said that he will talk to me to finish the trade deal at the end of Oct 2014. And hey he is disappear until then. I email him at the first week of Nov, and until today there is no any reply.
Ahhhh just a time waster !!!! So better to cancel the deal by myself. I am too tired to wait !!!

For dreadmeat: The italian postal service gets LOADS of undeserved bad press. I've started buying/selling/trading cds since 2006 and NEVER EVER experienced any trouble with lost packages. Some canadian guy can also confirm that a package he sent me from Canada reached me in no less than 2 days (he was shocked to say the least).
lordul only sent me a photograph of a bubble mailer with my address on it, but it could very well be just a fake.
Axxmachine666's reply to my post also seems to confirm that it's not the postal service of my country to be under suspicion, but rather the reliability of some so-called traders (even from my own country).
Anyways thank you guys for caring!

Finally got that cd in the mail today: he shipped it on 09/19/2014, a full month after dealing with him on MA. He probably had some kind of more important situations to deal with during this months, so no big deal if I had to wait that long. I must say that the Singapore postal service is not the fastest around tough.
I wish lordrul all the best and I truly want to pubicly thank him.

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Sold lordrul a CD today, he paid quickly and communicated well, I'll update this again when he has received it.

+ lordrul Mar 04 2015

Made a big trade with Lordrul, about 30 cds. Arrived within 7 days from Singapore to Netherlands. Really happy with this trade. Thanks